How becoming too complacent, taking your lover for granted and not dating or courting them properly leads to loss of attraction, breakups, friend-zoning and cheating.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is in the process of wooing and re-attracting his wife back after he found out that she was cheating on him with another man. They have been together for five years and have a fourteen-month-old child together. He says that he started becoming a pleaser, complacent and lazy when it came to courting his wife properly after their child was born. He thought things were fine, but then he got a phone call about four months ago from a woman who told him that his wife was having an affair with her husband. His wife has since moved out because she was confused about her feelings. Initially he chased and tried to use logic and reason to get her back, but then he found my work. She is now doing all of the chasing, they are having passionate sex again, but he wants to know what to do going forward so she falls back in love, moves back in and wants to be a family again.
“Everyone gets complacent and lazy over time in their relationships which leads to taking their partner for granted. People who place a high value on commitment, loyalty and communication will try to communicate and work things out. If that does not work, they will leave the relationship before starting a new one because they know it’s the right thing to do. People who are weak, selfish, narcissistic and dishonest, usually will focus on getting their needs met elsewhere by cheating or lining up a replacement before leaving their current partner. If marriage, exclusivity, being faithful and loyalty are your core values, then you should only have exclusive relationships with or marry people who have a demonstrable history of being faithful to previous partners. Cheaters tend to always cheat and lie when they are not happy, but loyal people tend to always be loyal even when they are not.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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From my heart to yours,
Complacency Ruins Relationships